Welcome to Munch at the Holler, a 21+ social created for our local alternative-lifestyle community.

Whether you’re kinky, queer, polyamorous, ethically nonmonogamous, curious, unconventional, or still figuring out where you belong, you’re welcome here. This is a relaxed opportunity to meet new people, make friends, ask questions, and build community without pressure or expectations.

This is a social gathering, not a play party or hookup event. Casual public-appropriate clothing is encouraged. Consent and personal boundaries are expected at all times. Please do not touch anyone or take photos without explicit permission. Disrespectful, predatory, or discriminatory behavior will not be tolerated.

Newcomers are absolutely welcome. You do not need prior experience, a partner, a label, or a FetLife profile to attend. Come alone, bring a friend, or bring a partner. Just come curious and ready to meet your people.

This event is 21+ only. Valid ID is required. BYOB is permitted for guests 21+, but alcohol is never required.

Suggested admission is $5 to help support the space. If cost is a barrier, you may bring an unopened snack, hygiene product, or pantry item for the Community Cauldron instead. No one will be turned away for being unable to contribute.